Growing up in a religious family, conversations about intimacy, pleasure, desire, or relationships other than the traditional male/female ones weren't discussed. My mother taught me the fundamentals, such as contraception, how babies are made, menstruation, lectures on abstinence until marriage, and that sex was only intended for procreation. As a result, when I began navigating the world on my own, I had no real reference point. I had a long list of questions, most of which were sexuality because I struggled with mine for a long time. Once I started doing my own research I discovered so many people with the same story as myself.  I had to become the person I needed when I was young, confused and looking in all the wrong places for answers. That's when I decided to become a Sexuality Coach.